The stock Mopar external regulator was never designed to carry that much field current, that is more than likely why they are failing.
You have two options:
1) You could use the 91102R external adjustable voltage regulator. This unit is designed to handle 15 amps Field current, and will hold up better than an OE mopar unit. We offer these VRs for $110, and they have the added benefit of being adjustable for the charging voltage.
2) You could just send us your alternator (or order a new from us) and have it custom built with an internal voltage regulator. All you would need to do is connect a single ingnition switched turn on wire to the harness plug, and it would handle the rest. These internal voltage regulators are a little more reliable than the 91102R (in my experience) and also result in less wiring and stuff under the hood.