HELP! what do I do?

This is an easy one bud , insist she go with you , when she protests gently tell her you hate NASCAR too but at least if shes there with you it won't be so bad , maybe it might turn out to be fun . Refuse to go without her , this way you are a loving husband while forcing her to think about what she gets you in the future , plus if she is scheming something while you are away without her then thats a bust as well .