So how about that, front wheel flew off!

Is that what you mean by the bevel? It seems to be there so the washer on the lug will fit nicely

Hard to see a bevel in the hub picture.
The thin washer I don't like. I think I would have the wheel c'bores machined for the OD of the new heavier 5/32" thick washer at uniform depth. Careful not to go too deep and allow the lug to bottom out before reaching torque.
Also verify that .680" shank diameter.