My guess is you have a POS pressure plate, or the disk itself is warped really bad.
Went thru the same thing a couple years ago.
Bought a Zoom MU series clutch, it would grind and not go in any gear.
The techs at Zoom finally after several conversations said to send it back for a refund.
Put a Centerforce in mine and now no issues.
What brand clutch did you put in it?