You're certainly entitled to your choice of cross members. But if you're trying to save money like me you could easily tuck some 1" X 2" box iron (laying sideway) between the sub frame connectors because the factory trans cross member is about 1 1/2" tall so that leaves 1 1/2" of space plus the extra space between the exhaust pipes and the upper cross member. The box iron would only be 1" tall laying on it's side. But that's just me, I like to make stuff!!
The route you're taking would be easier.
Treblig