Husband is not in bed

without getting into a heated discussion, that it is not the way God intended it, and no matter what she might say herself it is not what is best for her

feel free to send me a PM if you feel like hearing a more in depth answer but that's the short of it

....someones happiness is far more important to me than the way some book says it should be....trust me, she was not happy when she was "straight"....so I guess she should be unhappy and be with a man because that is what a book says? And I thought I had a weird way of looking at things....please, don't bother messaging me the elaborate version, as it will just be a waste of your time typing it as it will be deleted....reality, to me, is far more important than anything that a "belief" system claims....