seller won't return my pm's

for as fast as the OP ships out items he sells, he should get the same courtesy in return.

Nine days is way too long if this person has your money ....its one thing to drag out the deal making process or freebies, but once money has been paid then it should become the seller's priority.

And if someone takes advantage of the gift function on paypal then he or she needs to be called out because if people send money via gift button then that is the honor system and that is cold and low down and no honor in taking advantage of that.