Rod to Rod Clearance how much is too much ?

Oh I can move them side to side and hear them click.

That's good, that just tells you that they are not binding or too tight, but seeing how close you are to the factory spec is probably a good idea. I'm still figuring this stuff out myself so i'd listen to some more knowledgeable people on here. But I think you should be good, too much wouldn't seem like it would cause problems.