Hey man, you and I should get together for a beer and a chat. I've been through this exactly, probably with an even worse scenario and am now on the other side of all that as my daughter is now almost 23 and her and I have a great relationship, even though we both went through some really crappy stuff, mostly related to her mother.
Just lemme know, good weather for a short cruise this weekend and I'd be happy to talk if it might help ya. Did I mention Beer???
