Daughter wants to move in with her mom

It just sucks when parents, even divorced, are not united for their kid's sake. Makes it very hard to be the good parent when the other one is more concerned with being a friend to a teenaged kid. i really feel for ya and understand. Next weekend, man, let's get together and shoot the sh*t! You will get through this, probably with some gray hairs to show for it but your kid will ultimately know who was the good parent and role model when it all shakes out. Stick to your guns but also make sure no matter what that she always knows you are there for her, any time, even if she chooses to go stay at her mom's place and it breaks your heart. She will appreciate you in the end for being consistent and reliable and someone she can look up to.