You're takin all this personally and it's not meant as such. I am ignorant of so many things, it's pathetic. I got no problem with somebody sayin it or me admittin it.
You be "out" if you want to, but that's your mistake. This is a great discussion and one you can learn from if you can come down long enough. You asked for help. You're getting it. Just because we're not pamperin and powderin your butt while we're doin it ain't our fault.