I need help to bury my cousin.

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bkbond12

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Hello Everyone,

First off, if this is in violation of any forum rules, I am unaware and ask that a mod delete it if it is.


On 11/15/2014, my cousin, Mike Long, was beaten by two men with a shovel and a crowbar and left in the snow for dead. Around 4:30 am, a passerby found him and called 911. At this time, he was not breathing, had no pulse and his core temperature had dropped so low that it would not register on a medical thermometer. Paramedics performed CPR and rushed him to Allegan General Hospital. Doctors fought for three hours to bring his core temperature up, restore breathing and a pulse.

Miraculously, the doctors were able to revive him. He was then helicoptered to Bronson. Doctors continued to fight to save his life. Mike continued to fight for his life and even awoke for awhile. His kidneys, lungs, pancreas and heart were so damaged from the cold and brutal assault, that doctors kept him alive with machines, sedation, and medication. It appeared he might recover with no brain damage. HOPE was at an all time high.

However, late Sunday night, 11-16-2014 he turned kept looking and searching, with tears in his eyes, for my mother. He found her in the chair next to his bed, where she had never left his side. Moments later, he became unresponsive. At 3pm on 11-17-2014, doctors pronounced Mike Long deceased.

Anyone, who knew Mike, knew his fullness for life. A life of only 24 years that was cut short, way to early. My family will miss him and never forget him. However, my family is not financially well off, yet my mother would give the shirt off her back to help someone in need. When the chips are down, my family is there to lend a hand and help in anyway possible. Now for us, the chips are down....We have no way of providing a funeral for my cousin, no way of paying his medical expenses.

A simple burial is going to cost $5000. We have no way of paying for this expense and could really use a helping hand to provide closure during this difficult time. We will make due with less. Please donate if you can (the link is at the bottom of the page), every little bit helps, but PLEASE, PLEASE do not donate if it will burden you or cause you or your family financial difficulty.

Thank you for your time and God bless.

https://www.giveforward.com/fundrai...al-and-funeral-fundraiser?utm_source=facebook

Paypal Address ~ twlong1981@gmail.com
 
I searched Google for anything about the murder of a Michael Long in Allegan Michigan. I couldn't find anything. Not calling you a liar, it's just that the Internet is full of scammers. Could you provide us a link to a news story about Mike's murder so we know this is legit?
 
My cousin was like a son to my mother. She took him in after my grandmother passed away when he was 10 years old. This entire ordeal has taken quite a toll on her and I wish I could do something to make it go away, but I can't. However, I am hoping that with a little help from this great community, I can help her lay him to rest. I just don't know what else to do. I am her support and could use a little help.
 
I searched Google for anything about the murder of a Michael Long in Allegan Michigan. I couldn't find anything. Not calling you a liar, it's just that the Internet is full of scammers. Could you provide us a link to a news story about Mike's murder so we know this is legit?

I fully understand. There isn't a news story on his assault and death. Services will be held at Whitley Memorial Funeral Home. Currently, they are autopsying his body and will release it to the funeral home later today or early tomorrow. We are making arrangements with the parlor today/tomorrow and his service information should be available on their website. If it will further ease your mind, I will send you a copy of his death certificate when we get it?
 
Most places around the country have funeral homes that provide very low cost, no frills cremations. We have one in Milledgeville, Georgia that does it for 750 bucks. While it may not be what you are looking for, it is a low cost alternative.

You have my deepest sympathy.
 
I searched Google for anything about the murder of a Michael Long in Allegan Michigan. I couldn't find anything. Not calling you a liar, it's just that the Internet is full of scammers. Could you provide us a link to a news story about Mike's murder so we know this is legit?

WOW...if in doubt just ignore the thread and dont help. Your response has basically called him out in the absolute worst of times and on a public forum. Some day you may need the same help, think of how you would feel........:wack:

bkbond, my deepest sympathies
 
Just gotta say that I live near by and never saw any news on this and never saw him in the obituaries. Please post a link to the obituary and I will definitely be willing to help.
 
Just gotta say that I live near by and never saw any news on this and never saw him in the obituaries. Please post a link to the obituary and I will definitely be willing to help.

I second this , if it is legit , which I imagine it is , is there a paypal account I can donate to? Thanks and I'm so sorry for your loss
 
Just gotta say that I live near by and never saw any news on this and never saw him in the obituaries. Please post a link to the obituary and I will definitely be willing to help.
X2 HERE FOR ME.... like most people, I want to be sure where my $ go.
for me personally, I rather be cremated.... but that's what I prefer for myself when the time comes....
 
X2 HERE FOR ME.... like most people, I want to be sure where my $ go.
for me personally, I rather be cremated.... but that's what I prefer for myself when the time comes....

Agree with what is said here....
 
WOW...if in doubt just ignore the thread and dont help. Your response has basically called him out in the absolute worst of times and on a public forum. Some day you may need the same help, think of how you would feel........:wack:

bkbond, my deepest sympathies

My sentiments exactly. Our condolences.
 
My sincerest condolences.

I don't know if this helps and maybe it's not what is desired but
Whitely's on line ad lists direct cremation at only $1050.00.


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My sentiments exactly. Our condolences.

Thanks Doug. bkbond has been a member here since.2010, so he waits 4 years to scam? Yet people will buy parts from a brand new member then piss n moan they've been scammed or the parts arent nice n shiny??
 
Yeah and we called the police station there in both cities and asked if there was info on the beating death of a Michael or mike Long in the past few weeks to date and they answered "nothing to the departments knowledge" of any such incident or any 911 calls reported of such, so I am at a loss until proof is shown we cant help, sorry.
 
I appreciate all of the emotional support. Thank you.

I don't write the news and can only surmise that police departments don't comment on ongoing investigations. Additionally, hospitals don't publish a patient list. Like I said, his body is being autopsied and the funeral home has not received his remains. We are probably going to do cremation due to it being a cheaper form of burial. We are even going to apply for an SER from DHS to help with expenses. The fundraiser needed an amount, so I put the amount Whitley's quoted us for a basic funeral. Any extra is going to help with his medical expenses that will be pretty high.
 
the me phone number to ask if you don't believe him is: 1269 3376173
this is a tragedy and rather then say those things about the guy maybe contact the medical examiner theres no obituary because it just happened.
 
I am sorry to hear this- having experienced a family death recently...I know how crazy it is to lose someone AND at the same time, have so much stuff to take care of.

I hope that the hospitals/doctors will drop the medical bills for you guys- They did in our case...just out of kindness and mercy.
 
Prayers sent for your Mom. I am so sorry for your family's loss and suffering. God will bring justice.
 
I don't see how there is medical expenses if he was 24 years old and not married. A wife would be the only one responsible for the bills, otherwise the hospital collections dept. will go after his estate, him being 24 probably has no estate so the hospital is out of luck?
 
That is a good point. We were not responsible for my brothers medical expenses....he was also not married. After settling the estate when we went to pay, the hospital let it slide. Same happened to my friend when he lost his father... hopefully they will do the same for you man. God Bless
 
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