making a paint decision

going through this problem right now.....currently doing body work on my wagon and I am going to paint it.

the problem I have is the brown is too boring plus the car is starting a new life now, plus the original woodgrain is out the door. I don't want anything high impact because its a wagon and I have seen too many of them painted loud flashy colors and to me that seems like its trying too hard to be the 2 door its not.

I would like somewhat sleeper but not so quiet that its never noticed. Tall order I know, but that is the problem of choosing the right color for a particular car's personality.