How many times can rod and main bolts be torqued?
From ARP catalog:
Are ARP bolts and studs re-usable?Yes. As long as the fasteners have been installed and torqued correctly, and show no visible signs of damage, they can be re-used. If they show any signs of thread galling or corrosion, they should be replaced. In the case of rod bolts, if any of them have taken a permanent set and have stretched by .001 or longer, you should replace them immediately. See page 29 in the catalog for more detailed information on this critical measurement.
Here's page 29:
http://arpcatalog.com/?src=home#29/z
Are you crazy? Why would you contact the manufacturer and experts when you can go with the "wisdom" of the internet? ;-)