cranks but won't start?

The male portion is part of the front harness with connector 3 that goes to the PCM. That harness has the fan and headlights. The female portion is part of the harness with connector 1 and 2.

I feel this entire issue was a blessing, I have now learned a lot of the ins and outs of this set up which I'm sure will help myself or someone else along the way.