Something like a Honda CRV/Element, Kia Sportage/Tuscon, Toyota Rav4, Ford Escape, Honda pilot, Toyota 4runner.. even thought about Chevy Colorado 4DR pick w/4cyl (not so sure about that one) something along that type of vehicle.
I've gotten a lot of useful information on this thread. Some of it telling me what are the good thing about various vehicles. Some telling me about possible problems (that I would not want to deal with).