Rear sway bar suggestion

Aftermarket rear bars are usually 3/4". That's a little too stout to use with the stock front bar -- it is designed to complement the 1-1/8 aftermarket front bars. Too much rear bar will cause oversteer, which is undesirable. I would say, do your front end work and get new shocks, then evaluate whether you need more roll control. Poly end link bushings will make the front bar seem tighter.

As for shocks, I use KYB. Some people say they are harsh, but I don't think so -- at least not if you already have HD springs. They are a good value at any rate. Stepping up to Koni or Bilstein is a lot more expensive.