What would you do?
i feel ur pain man im in a very similar situation with her( she is a only child so that makes it hard cause there is nobody else to help) mom and it sucks for sure. as many times as i/we get **** on by her mom i still run to the rescue every time(all hour of the day and night)she falls out of bed or cant get herself off the toilet or breaks the remote or her electric lift chair or whatever else life throws at her.i do ***** and complain at times and say im not helping anymore because her mom ***** on her constantly and she cant for whatever reason stand up to her mom for her own rights.
but at the end of the day it boils down to the fact that Plain and simple bottom line i do it for my wife i love her and because she would do it for me.
not to mention the " for better or worse" thing i promised her so good luck pal its really a no win situation.