starter relay wiring

The problem with all the drawings posted is that they are not correct. You can download the FACTORY service manual for free, some here

http://www.forabodiesonly.com/mopar/showthread.php?p=1970088617

and more here

http://www.mymopar.com/index.php?pid=31

Also at MyMopar are separate wiring diagrams which are sometimes easier to follow than the factory ones but ARE NOT always complete as to options and connectors

http://www.mymopar.com/index.php?pid=18