This is true, but the lady I have been with for 7 years constantly has one. I was basically keeping two houses going. I had to put my foot down. Actually I started to cry and said "I can't do it, I can't do it" Made her feel bad. So she sold the house and bought a smaller one with all the same projects AGAIN! She won't move up here because I am too far from town and I lived in town for 4 years....That's not for me.