Should I swap the 3.91's for 3.55 or 3.23

I have a 3rd member set up with 3.91's and 3.23's. Everytime I swap the 3.23's they last about a week and the 3.91's go back in. I have a XE284 cam and they do not mix. Way more fun to cruise but out of the hole it feels like I threw out the anchor. I've been throwing around the idea of swapping the 3.23's for 3.55's. I think it would be the best for all around driving.