Rear end question

...It's actually difficult to get it to the whining spot. It doesn't whine on accell or decell it's just in between...

I think the term you're searching for is "float". I'm with Rob...check the pinion nut first. Get it fixed before it gets any worse and you can probably salvage your ring and pinion with nothing more invested than some time, diff lube, and maybe some bearings/crush sleeve/pinion nut/seal...all parts that should be available at a real parts store.