goodbye guys, gonna have to call it quits.

We have talked today about her getting some time to herself during the week for a break from the kids to decompress. She said she doesnt resent the fact that i need time to myself, but rather needs time for herself as well. We both came to a new agreement that weekends = family time, and she will get some alone time maybe 2 evenings during the week, and i will get some alone time in the shop maybe 2 times during the week. With my hours i am home by 4pm.

She has told me she realizes that i need longer time in the shop as sometimes its hard to get into a project thats time consuming if you only have a few hours a week to work on it.

Thank you everybody for your insight , and suggestions. I dont think anybody can exist in a vacuum.

Matt