Torque converter affecting idle question

Late to the game. But could the wrong flex plate converter be the problem or part of it? The 360 magnum is externally balanced. Could an out of balance combo play havoc at low rpm? Or if the converter wasn't bushed to the proper size. The converter could be offset.

No. Don't know anyway how that could affect it. It'd only cause it to vibrate if the balance was off. No clue what you mean by "bushed to the proper size"???