Fuel pump relay location

So, for those of us who aren't that smart with wiring, would that be the lighter gauge switched power wire? Is it wired by just cutting the relay wire, and wiring it one side in, one out?

Exactly. You can also hide a toggle switch or other switch somewhere and use it for anti -theft.....if "they" can't turn on the fuel pump, "they" aren't driving your car very far.