From what I saw there were qualifiers that didn't go over very well.
1. We don't smoke so you cant.
2. We don't drink so you cant.
Now don't get me wrong here, as I feel it is totally within your rights to state how you want things to go at your place, but I think some opted out because of the rules.
It probably would have turned out differently if the meet was at a local park or something like that.
Maybe I shouldn't have even mentioned it at all, but it's been kind of hanging ever since the last invitation/offer.
It kind of makes people wonder what else is coming I guess.
Please, no offense meant at all as I am just suggesting how some might have felt about it.
Like I said "totally within your rights" and within others to politely opt out.
Now I feel like an A-hole, but I'm just trying to be honest with you about it.