as said before, women and children are on this site, and therefore no place for the "f" word, in my opinion. and if refraining from using that word is "taking the high road" then so be it. and if anyone thinks that I think I;m "better" than anyone else, then they do not know me at all.
trying to have manners should never be apologized for.
I admit to usisng the word "chi*" as here in the country it is as common a commodity and basic to life here as "dirt"! ha