OK, that makes a bit more sense LOL. What is the gasket thickness by itself? It looks like you have a .002" variation in compressed thickness across all your measurement; that seems to be a probable source of slow leakage at the larger thickness. Was the oil leakage worse at the passenger's side rear and driver's side front? If so, then some extra torque on those ends might help even the gaps, but I am not sure you can torque it enough. It seems like passenger side front and driver side rear are high and the opposite corners are low. Some gasket sealer is going to be needed IMO help seal that up.