1 Do NOT restrict the oil going to the head.
2 if your shafts already have the 2 holes per rocker why do you want to plug them an drill more. You have plugged the leak on the rocker so oil is going to the pushrod now that was being lost. You plugged the hole on top and drilled the new oiling hole for the valve and rocker tip your good to go on the rocker arms.
3 .100 to .125 is a 25 percent increase in diameter isn't that a 100 percent increase in volume correct me someone if I'm wrong.
4 See answer 2
5 I don't think you want to do this. A solid lifter cam has different ramp speed an profile than a hydraulic one. Did you replace the wire clips with C clips? All it takes is a loose adjuster an a wire clip will leave the building.
6 1 thread is about perfect I thought maybe I'm wrong
7 Buy the new pushrods go with the solids
Jad PS hope your not using a stock oil pump pickup for the HV pump especially with the Guitar Jones mods.