The life of relays varies. The mechanical life of opening and closing without load could be a million. At rated load current, resistive load, perhaps 100,000, but, resistive load, is not typical. With an inductive loads, or incandescent lamp loads, life will be much less. If inductive loads such as motors, A/C clutch, without snubbing or diode suppression life may be very short... To answer the question better, the relay part number, and load information is required. DC switching with inductive loads off is harder than most think, there may be kick-back voltages that exceed relay voltage rating, without snubbing. Incandescent loads have high inrush current, when switched on, at many times typical load current.