Stop in for a cup of coffee

You can refund his paypal with a note. I did that a few times. Also have him update his addy in paypal and the shipping from there is cheaper.
if i cant get in touch with him, i may do that.

Though I get a discount at fedex here anyway, ol lady works there has very nice, all original, rust free 73 dart custom 4 door that we talk about all the time, so she gives me the routine shipper discount, which is about 10%