Stop in for a cup of coffee

I only do it for Beer and Golf money. Really don't need the $$. Usually someones Hot Rod/Custom car that was referred to me. And then there is the Ladies and older people from my Church that I help from being taken advantage of. But... It is getting out of hand. My Wife says, I just don't know how to say no. I'm definitely scaling it back, since I have sooo many of my own projects..
And when I started saying NO, I am the butt hole. no win doing things for friends for free, or a "good deal". My good friend gets in a wreck in his ML Benz, he gets a big payout from his insurance company, asks me to fix his car. body work and paint. Paid me nothing. No winning .