Harmonic balancer comes off

old Pontiac V8 dampers were not a press fit, they had a bolt, and ran fine for years
As above.... FWIW, the bolt is what clamps the damper to the crank for the case of a SBM. The purpose is make sure all of the higher frequency vibrations are coupled into the damper so it can do its job. With the 135 ft-lbs torque on a 3/4" thread bolt, the clamping force is somewhere in the range of the 10,000-12,000 lbs. The interference fit can't come anywhere near to that 'locking' force and is not reliable anyway for higher vibration levels, due to variations in the fit. (It is obviously adequate for the /6.)

OP, make sure the bolt has the very thick stock washer (approximately 3/16" thick) under the bolt head. That HAS to be there so that the bolt can apply the above level of clamping force. A thinner washer will just distort and release the clamping force.