Stop in for a cup of coffee

yea - 3 weeks seems like too long.. I would be on their chit... the BS feed is what they do, ya gotta pissed off at them and let 'em know you mean business.. there's a time for being "PC" and then there's a time to "hey - FU"
agreed, my wife was up and walking from hers within 20 minutes of the birth. Both times.