help-understand Milleniums?

My daughter (currently 21) has been a go getter as far back as I can remember. At 15 she begged me to work at a local pizza joint so she can make her own money for music. CD's, guitar strings, her own Amp.

Her now husband (6 months older) used his own money to school himself in automotive. He is a mechanic and loves it. Whip smart with an excellent memory. Nether or self righteous or snotty. There currently looking to purchase a house. How many 21 year old married couples do you know looking to purchase a house?

My nephew just came to live with us leaving Fl. Behind. He complained it was to hot and no decent jobs available. His mom decided to remove him from the bad friends curtailing his life. Now away from it all, he seeks a job and signed up for HVAC classes at the local community collage.

Moral of the story?

BE a parent and start with telling them the cold hard truth. You want something, get up off your *** and work towards that goal because no one is going to just give you it. Push them towards a goal and then some. Help them, not hand them.