Pushrod question... Will it cause damage???

You need to measure to do it right. Especially with non-adjustable rockers. Over time blocks get decked, heads get milled, etc. if he THINKS he put the wrong pushrods in it, then clearly they weren't what came out of it, and/or he has doubts. He also needs to add the correct preload, which is typically .020-.050. on a hyd setup

on shaft, non-adjustable rockers, this is all accomplished with the correct length pushrod. If they're adjustable, you have some fudge factor, but i'm assuming they aren't.

say it had a .060 head gasket originally, and the replacement you went with was .020, and it was decked .005, and the heads milled. you just took your lifter pre-load from the min acceptable, to the max acceptable, or beyond... you'll know when the lifters pump up and the valves kiss the pistons.

this is a smart $20 to spend... make sure your range is correct.
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The entire motor was just freshly built by my Dad from an empty block and new parts.

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Hydraulic lifters, non-adjustable rockers, and the heads were milled .004. He put in a stock gasket, and stock-sized push rods, so the only difference is the .004 milled. So, we should be pretty darn close aye?