Could use a friend right now.

Snake,
Went through this twice with my wife. First time she was only 31. Second time although it was in only one breast we decided that a bilateral mastectomy was the best route to go. That was 24 years ago and she is as strong willed as ever. She complained that she was flatter than me however I reassured her that was so I could holder that much closer. It is serious but by no means a death sentence.