I aso found out today from the grizzled old mopar guy im friends with that i need the 130T flywheel. That te 143T for the 11 inch clutch was standard on 440 6 pack cars and Hemi cars. He said everything else was 130T and 10.5" clutch.
ok so I got my flywheel from rockauto
1989 DODGE DAKOTA 3.9L 239cid V6
LUK LFW215 Flywheel . I mounted flywheel and bellhousing to engine. mounted the starter in place. it is a 10 tooth starter that was on the 727 auto. I engaged the the starter by just pushing the bendix out by hand . it engages perfectly. as I held it engaged I had my son rotate the engine from the front. (battery disconnected of course!). my opinion is that any 10 tooth starter will likely work with your flywheel and bellhousing. hope that helps.
