Well that just broke my heart...

I feel you. I had to tell my 10yr Grand daughter my ex-wife had just had a massive brain aneurysm. Then they kept her alive for an additional 2 days to harvest organs. Letting my grand daughter say goodbye before they "pulled the plug" was absolutely the hardest thing I think I have ever done. My ex raised my grand daughter for the 1st 2 years of her life, they were tight. Just be strong for her!