Stop in for a cup of coffee

Time for a nap...got a new battery for the daily beater this morning and caught grief from crazy step-sister dissatisfied that Dad's obit didn't give more prominent mention to her mother. Shaking my head, this is about honoring our Dad, not the woman who divorced him 25+ years ago, and also giving proper respect to the wife who devoted herself to him faithfully until her death last year. Some people have no concept of boundaries.
Did you name her (the ex) and their children? What was she hoping for?