Relocating of the Neutral Safety Switch
Nobody confronted you. Nobody called you stupid. Nobody. We were only trying to help you make a good decision. As for you not sharing what you are doing with your car, that's your own selfishness. Don't try and blame that on anyone but you.
All anyone did was try to help, but as far as I am concerned and to use your own words, for me helping you anymore, that stops now.