I am not here for sympathy. I believe in paying for the items I choose, I thank you for your offers but must decline. it was an honor to serve my community that was my reward. thank yous are very hard for some people but that was all I ever asked for on the job. that is all it really takes, a simple thank you. when I see a soldier in uniform I shake their hand and thank them for their service. that little gesture doesn't cost you a dime but it does make a world of difference to that person. so save your money, and just say thank you the next time you have the opportunity. believe me it does make a huge difference. thanks guys