Stop in for a cup of coffee

I'm 10 years into this job and I'm still somebody's biatch!!! And I have had to clean the toilet (more my own OCD than job requirement tho)..
As facilities manager, if my custodian was off... sometimes it was just easier to jump in and do the cleaning than to pull people from other stuff. Plus I always set the example that I was not 'above' any job I asked them to do. So the 'compassion' idea did not enter the picture. Just F'n do it already.