Stop in for a cup of coffee

no no, usually i rack my brain trying to find a superficial gift. This year, i decided I'm replicating our first date and first Valentine's day all in one. It took me a while, but i found a DVD of the first movie we went too , I've ordered the same special bouquet of flowers from the same flower shop(in the city we used to live in, so I have to go pick them up yet after work), I've got the same dinner lined out, just for 4 instead of 2(no one can watch kiddos tonight for obvious reasons), I even dug through her keepsake box and found the first present I gave her for our first Valentine's day. I even custom ordered a replica of the first card I gave her.

So despite her telling me she wanted no gifts this year, she's getting this.
see? so you do buy into it at some level... I think the first date memory thing is very cool - hell, I may steal it later this year.. we'll be celebrating our 10th anniversary