Stop in for a cup of coffee

Ugh! My brother-in-law with the late stage liver cancer lashed out against his mother and my wife in nasty phone calls today so I had to call him and address it.

First I stood him up and kicked his *** verbally...then I brought him down, consoled him, listened to him, counseled him, let him cry, lifted him up and brought him back to level again to get back on track to focusing on fighting the cancer and not those who are helping him.

One of the hardest things I've ever had to do...slap around someone who is dying from cancer and still make it productive for them and everyone else involved.

He feels better, my wife and her mother feel better...and I feel like my insides have been sucked out with a vacuum cleaner and put through a blender. :(