Agreed! We have had a few in the past who seemed to go overboard with the sob stories to such an extreme that FABO members even kicked in for a lunch at McDonald's because he was too broke. Kindness, generosity and comraderie are wonderful but taking advantage again and again (and then happily announcing a short time later than another child was on the way) was just too much for quite a few of us. He shoulda started a thread to pay for some condoms instead.