Stop in for a cup of coffee

yeah but she's done it across so many daycares in the past year, I'm not sure who or what the bullying stems from. Only thought would be her older cousin who's 5 was doing it to her every weekend at dinner but we got that stopped and she's not been around here for over a month
The feeling of "being bullied" isn't always physical and not always obvious. Sometimes it's being in a situation that is oppressive, frightening and out of your control evokes the same feelings of being bullied. It can be obvious, or subtle, since kids expand reality in their own mind to be far more scary or oppressive than it actually is.

Their perception of reality isn't the same as yours.