Stop in for a cup of coffee

No no. We got that stopped almost instantly. Let me back up,

We have a weekly Sunday dinner at my father in laws. Her cousin, my niece, is the daughter of my sister in law. Her cousin was bullying her for just a few weeks before my wife had enough of it and we got that stopped over a year ago. She hasn't been around her cousin for a month, not due to the bullying thing but because my father in law is on chemo for cancer at the VA for the pasted 6 weeks. He's got a rare forum of bone cancer. So we've not had the family get together because someone has been sick and so the dinners get canceled to avoid spreading germs to him until everyone is healthy
gotcha!