Stop in for a cup of coffee

Yeah maybe. I'm having a hard time wrapping my mind around this. It's something I've been struggling with for many months now . This is literally all I've done for most of my life. Pretty hard to hang it up
It won't be easier if it hangs you up...for good.

Think about what you are saying, you sound like someone who stays stuck in a marriage gone bad because they keep telling themselves "but we've been together forever"...