Stop in for a cup of coffee

I worked with inner city at risk kids..... you are 1000% correct in this attitude.
It was no different when I worked at the Prison. 15 years there of hearing how they live and how its every one elses fault but there own. Dont get me wrong I've had some good discussions with some major players in gangs and some are forced into it others choose and some do want out but dont know how. The majority of them though.. Its just the way it is and going to be and they arent going to change.